Ray J. has dubbed ex-girlfriend Kardashian a hypocrite for complaining when their sex tape leaked onto the internet - and then use it to build a TV career. The R&B singer is determined to break the mold and achieve fame without relying on the publicity the scandalous video brought him. He says, "My mission is to let all women know you don't have to be like Paris Hilton and shoot a sex tape and three weeks later you have a reality show. You don't (have) to be like Kim and shoot a sex tape and do Playboy and become this so-called superstar from having a sex tape. Just focus on your talent, the positive things of life that you do." Well said, Ray-Ray.
Brandy's baby brother also refuses to be tied down to one woman--old and young--particularly when he is being linked with two of the biggest names in music - Whitney Houston and Lil Kim. Most famous for his sex tape performance with Kardashian, Ray J. has known both divas since he was a teenager. He refuses to deny romantic liaisons with them - and claims to love them both. Of his relationship with rapper Lil' Kim, Ray J says, "We go out on dates and have fun but it's not official like I'm her husband and she's my wife. We go out and we have fun. I love Lil' Kim (but) I don't kiss and tell." And, of Houston, he adds, "I've been knowing Whitney since I was young. Every time she came around we laughed and joked. We always had good conversation, so last year we just spent a lot more time together. I don't think I'm in love. But I love her."
AFTER THE JUMP, FIND OUT WHY RAY J. USES HIS SEX TAPE AS AN EDUCATIONAL TOOL.
Some folks may be unaware of the fact that when the actor/musician isn't busy writing and producing songs for himself as well as other artists, he can often be found in the confines of his home watching his sex tape to analyze and critique his bedroom performance. And while he insists he never sits down and watches it with friends, he uses it as an educational tool so he can study and improve on his performance, claiming, "I would never watch that with one of my friends but I did watch it to watch my performance. It's kind of like a football game and afterwards you watch the game and see how you can get better at it."