Gabrielle Union was lensed arriving at her hotel in New York City on Wednesday afternoon, July 10, 2008. The still single and sexy actress has vowed to put motherhood to one side for a few years because she says she's not responsible enough to play the demanding role of mother. Union says, "Right now, I don't have the same urges as other women when they see a baby. When I see children, I see responsibilities, which I don't think I'm quite ready for. I feel the same about puppies. They're cute for a second, but there's a lot of responsibility involved." I feel you 100%, Gabby! LOL! The 35-year-old star who ended her five-year-long marriage to former NFL player Chris Howard in 2006 also warns women about the dangers of getting swept away and caught up by the romance of marriage, stating, "No one really lets you know how hard it is. You kind of enter into worrying about your ring and your bridesmaid's dresses. But you learn and hopefully do better next time." And Union admits the couple never conceived partly because she feared taking on adult responsibilities.